Did we want the "Rules" side - the side that looked the most like we did, appeared to hold more the same convictions as us concerning dress and many other things, seemed like a safe place with less peer pressure to raise a family of 5 young children? Or the "Heart" side - the side that was more concerned about what was in the heart than making sure everything looked "right" on the outside, the side that focused more on "what does the Bible say?" than "what do the standards say?", the side that looked different than us but shared many of our concerns?
Tell me, where would YOU choose to raise a family of 5 young children?